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		<title>A note about scaling.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 03:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Let me tell you something about scaling.  McDonalds is scalable.  It’s also as boring as holy hell.  However, my local coffee shop, The Bean, is not very scalable but they are awesome and everyone loves them.&#8221; AJ Leon]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>&#8220;Let me tell you something about scaling.  McDonalds is scalable.  It’s also as boring as holy hell.  However, my local coffee shop, <a title="The Bean" href="http://thebeannyc.com/">The Bean</a>, is not very scalable but they are awesome and everyone loves them.&#8221; <a href="http://ajleon.me/">AJ Leon</a></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Smart Growth Manifesto</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 01:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;There is a difference between ambition and greed. Ambition drives us to be extraordinary, reach higher, and do outstanding work. Greed is the byproduct of a scarcity mentality that tells us our gains must come at the expense of others.&#8221; The Slow Growth is Smart Growth Manifesto]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;There is a difference between ambition and greed. </strong>Ambition drives us to be extraordinary, reach higher, and do outstanding work. Greed is the byproduct of a scarcity mentality that tells us our gains must come at the expense of others.&#8221; <a href="http://www.laurenandemira.com/2009/0728manifesto/"><em>The Slow Growth is Smart Growth Manifesto</em></a></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Customer Service is essential</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 08:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Luster is a fascinating albeit slightly depressing read for anyone who has in the past loved luxury or service. Shopping in boutiques has always been something I&#8217;ve loved to do because I would get the best and most knowledgeable service. The sales people would learn my name, they&#8217;d put things [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001IDZK8U?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amb&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001IDZK8U">Deluxe: How Luxury Lost Its Luster</a></em> is a fascinating albeit slightly depressing read for anyone who has in the past loved luxury or service. Shopping in boutiques has always been something I&#8217;ve loved to do because I would get the best and most knowledgeable service. The sales people would learn my name, they&#8217;d put things aside when they came in, they could tell me the little details, they&#8217;d wrap up my packages and make shopping an <em>experience</em> whether I was buying something for $20 or $200.</p>
<p>Living in Santa Monica with neighbors like Los Angeles and Malibu, &#8220;luxury&#8221; boutiques are all around. Every name designer and brand is within easy reach of me yet service and knowledge within those companies is pretty elusive. Even more so during the recession, which you think would be opposite.</p>
<p>During tough times, when foot traffic has slowed and dropping cash is slower still, you&#8217;d think companies would regroup, get rid of unproductive, knowledgeable people and train those that stay on how to treat and engage customers, how to explain the products from a t-shirt to a ring to a Bentley and then train them on how to present it upon check out.</p>
<p>But I can&#8217;t tell you how many luxury stores I&#8217;ve been to where the sales people just kind of do their own thing from gossiping with each other, to letting merchandise just unfolded on shelves to saying, &#8220;Um, I don&#8217;t know&#8221; when asked a question. In a store shelling out luxury products and I as their only customer in sight, it&#8217;s frustrating. I&#8217;m actually a European shopper in the sense I generally like to be left alone to browse but when I have a question, someone better have an answer. And if I&#8217;m going to spend money I don&#8217;t take into consideration just the price of the item but the entire experience. If the sales person makes it less than, I walk.</p>
<p>Yesterday a girlfriend and I went to the new J.Crew Collection store in Malibu, one of three in the country. We were the only customers with 5 sales girls running around. To their credit, the nicest woman came over and was genuinely interested in helping us and talking to us and we were genuinely happy to be petting the pretty things &#8211; specifically the luggage.</p>
<p>With a trip coming up to Europe, my girlfriend wanted to buy it. She hesitated at the price and asked my opinion since I&#8217;m a frequent traveller. I tried asking the sales lady a lot of questions but the first problem was it took 4 sales women to figure out how to open the special lock system. And then they each just gave a quick blurb about how it was hand made for the Royal Family and limited edition. I asked a few more questions but didn&#8217;t get answers to those. It was, however, a stunning piece of luggage and I had read up online about it a little so I knew the quality was high and could totally see my girlfriend with it.</p>
<p>But with such a big purchase, she wanted to make sure she knew what she was getting. And you&#8217;d expect from a store &#8211; especially a high-end retailer &#8211; to be able to get your every bit of information and present it in a totally confident way. But when she  asked the price it took four women and about ten minutes to try to figure out the price of the bag. When she asked to see the inside, it took about another 10 minutes to figure out how to open it. When she wanted to know all the materials used, it took scrambling around to find out what the material was (we were told the shell was made out of leather even though it clearly wasn&#8217;t). Totally in-love with the product, my friend hesitated in buying it because the whole experience in the store seemed uncertain. The staff wasn&#8217;t making it easy for her to say yes to buying. Their confusion made her confused about buying.<br />
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<p>So we put it on hold and left to think about it. Now the story splits into two here because there is my friend who wanted that suitcase and was willing to over look the situation to get the product. The product was more important. So when it took about 10 minutes and three sales women to figure out how to ring it up and they still could not answer some of the questions, my girlfriend overlooked that because at this point, she wanted that bag.</p>
<p>However this morning I get a text from her &#8211; she&#8217;d been way over-charged for the bag. She&#8217;d looked online and seen they had charged her for a larger size. I was so furious for her.</p>
<p>In a retail store that hasn&#8217;t seen crazy opening days and wasn&#8217;t busy on that particular day, 4 sales women totally dropped the ball. It&#8217;s not like they&#8217;re managing 17 stores, 80 people, different changing venues &#8211; they&#8217;re managing J.Crew merchandise in a J.Crew store. They should be beyond experts. They should know the intimate details of a $1500.00 bag. But no one did.</p>
<p>Yes they were friendly but ultimately they represented this luxury store very poorly. There was no wrapping of the case, no special tags given, no info on how to care or clean or what to do if it rips. Plus, they got the materials wrong and charged my friend for the wrong size.</p>
<p>When I said the story split it split in the sense that the bag was obviously worth it to my friend to go through the hassle and over-pay for it. That store got lucky to have her as their customer because if it was me buying the bag, I would have walked out. I wouldn&#8217;t have purchased it because the whole experience didn&#8217;t inspire confidence or specialness. It was a transaction mess. And I think stores are being both lazy and counting on customers to not care or say anything. Or worse yet, it&#8217;s that we&#8217;ve all come to expect bad service. For people to <em>not</em> be invested in their jobs unless it&#8217;s some kind of glamorous one like a movie or rockstar or bazillionheirres because chances are, we&#8217;re not invested in our own jobs. They&#8217;re not what we expect so we don&#8217;t commit. We save up for when our dream jobs arrive. The problem is, even that dream job &#8211; if it comes &#8211; will have a lot of tasks you won&#8217;t want to do or require you to be passionate about something you&#8217;re not. So my advice is to bring the passion to everything you do, even if your job isn&#8217;t your full-time passion.</p>
<p>The sales women at J.Crew obviously loved the brand as each of them were decked head to toe in their clothes and were choosing to work there. But they didn&#8217;t seem invested in the company or in themselves. Because of this, I have zero trust in their abilities despite the pretty store and fashion sense of the women. Instead of building customer relations and having two sales instead of one, they lost a customer and had another tell her friends about the over-charge which means a potential loss of even more customers.</p>
<p>Time and time again I see this happening not just in luxury boutiques but in restaurants, in hotels, in dealing with other business from Hollywood to tech and I wonder when did people stop caring about their job and about customer service? When did we decide that we don&#8217;t have to be experts, participate in educating ourselves or invest in a job we chose to take on whether it&#8217;s in tourism, retail, the web or the arts because it&#8217;s either not our &#8220;calling&#8221;, it&#8217;s only part-time, it&#8217;s just to pay the bills, it&#8217;s not fun? Any job you have is important to someone else so you&#8217;d better start making it important to you. Don&#8217;t sacrifice yourself and a customer because you&#8217;re only waiting tables until you&#8217;re discovered &#8211; that&#8217;s not the customers fault or responsibility. If you choose to go to work, then do the best because it will only get you further ahead, build better relationships, teach you a lot and most importantly, always make you invested in yourself. If you can be invested in rocking out a retail job, imagine what would happen if one day you got a dream job?</p>
<p>I can speak from experience on this because when I was 18, I worked in housekeeping at the famous Chateau Lake Louise; a four star luxury hotel that stars stayed at but also the average person who saved up for a once in a lifetime experience. It was my first big job and I thought there were times when I would be &#8220;on&#8221; and times when I could just complain about cleaning the 14th suite. You know, the expensive rooms would get the best cleaning and the best dressed people in the lobby the best service. I would be selective about when I&#8217;d rock out the service because not everyone should get the same &#8211; not everyone was going to be nice to me or had the fancy room or was actually staying at the hotel. Plus, I thought, I&#8217;m in housekeeping. It&#8217;s not like that&#8217;s a cool job. It&#8217;s not like that&#8217;s my passion!</p>
<p>But during a training session, my supervisor ended up giving me advice that changed how I worked entirely &#8211; not just at that job but every job thereafter.</p>
<p>He said that everyone in the hotel, whether they&#8217;re walking on the grounds outside, or through the lobby must be treated as though they are paying for the most expensive suite in the hotel for the most amazing experience possible. The reason? When people are walking around you don&#8217;t know who paid for the cheap tour bus room or the thousand dollar lake view suite. You can&#8217;t judge so you must give your best with everyone you meet whether you&#8217;re bringing strawberries and champagne to a room or just having finished cleaning a toilet. That how we held ourselves changed the experience of everyone we came into contact with and if we couldn&#8217;t muster the energy to be the best for each and every person, they wouldn&#8217;t have the best experience. And it didn&#8217;t matter what job we had, that if we couldn&#8217;t be fully invested in what we were doing, someone, somewhere, would be affected. And our business wasn&#8217;t in disappointing people.</p>
<p>That advice changed how I did each and every job from then on. No matter what it was, I did my best. Even cleaning toilets. In my personal life, I rarely made my bed and hated cleaning my roomt but when I went to work, I never cut corners or went in with an attitude. I actually ended up winning an award for most consecutively cleanest rooms and the quickest amount of time (my passion was skiing and hiking and I wanted to get out fast!) and received a promotion really quickly because my enthusiasm, pride and customer service was noticed by everyone (boss, co-workers, guests). That taught me to do the best, know as much as I can and deliver no matter what because it will help me somewhere else and in the meantime, create success for my customers, my co-workers, my company and myself (promotion meant more ski time and I was able to work a late shift!).</p>
<p>Even in 2001 before I went out on my own, when I was working at a job I didn&#8217;t find fulfilling, I brought my a-game every day. It&#8217;s why I left on great terms with my boss (and CEO of the company) and why I was able to move forward onto the next job without any bitterness or resentment or more importantly, fear. I hadn&#8217;t &#8220;saved up&#8221; my energy or abilities for &#8220;the perfect job&#8221; which meant that by doing the best with things I didn&#8217;t fully enjoy, made me able to confidently  rock out the jobs I did.</p>
<p>Not every job will be your passion (cleaning toilets wasn&#8217;t mine) but you need to bring your passion to your job. Each and every time you go to work.</p>
<p>I think during these times where it&#8217;s no longer chic to flaunt things, being able to flaunt a job and a job well done should become the new status symbol.</p>
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		<title>Best Way to Launch a Book</title>
		<link>http://girlatplay.com/2009/04/best-way-to-launch-a-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[BabyCakes, the Book of Recipes: It&#8217;s Here! from BabyCakes NYC on Vimeo. Erin McKenna the smart, savvy, passionate entrepreneur behind the successful bakery Babycakes NYC, has a book coming out, BabyCakes: Vegan, Gluten-Free, and (Mostly) Sugar-Free Recipes from New York&#8217;s Most Talked-About Bakery. She made the above video to let people know and what I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><object width="400" height="225" data="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=3963229&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="src" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=3963229&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1" /></object><br />
<a href="http://vimeo.com/3963229">BabyCakes, the Book of Recipes: It&#8217;s Here!</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user1523068">BabyCakes NYC</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<p>Erin McKenna  the smart, savvy, passionate entrepreneur behind the successful bakery <a href="http://babycakesnyc.com">Babycakes NYC</a>, has a book coming out, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307408833?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amb&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0307408833">BabyCakes: Vegan, Gluten-Free, and (Mostly) Sugar-Free Recipes from New York&#8217;s Most Talked-About Bakery</a></em>.</p>
<p>She made the above video to let people know and what I love about this video is you see her, you see the bakery, you see the glee and fun and then you see what you can make if you get the book. It&#8217;s all so slick but it feels completely authentic &#8211; like you want to be a part of it even though a company is selling you something. I love that kind of marketing.</p>
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		<title>What Every Good Marketer Knows</title>
		<link>http://girlatplay.com/2008/06/what-every-good-marketer-knows/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 12:57:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What Every Good Marketer Knows by Seth Godin: Anticipated, personal and relevant advertising always does better than unsolicited junk. Making promises and keeping them is a great way to build a brand. Your best customers are worth far more than your average customers. Share of wallet is easier, more profitable and ultimately more effective a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What Every Good Marketer Knows <a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/" target="_blank">by Seth Godin</a>:</p>
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<li> Anticipated, personal and relevant advertising always does better than unsolicited junk.</li>
<li> Making promises and keeping them is a great way to build a brand.</li>
<li> Your best customers are worth far more than your average customers.</li>
<li> Share of wallet is easier, more profitable and ultimately more effective a measure than share of market.</li>
<li> Marketing begins before the product is created.</li>
<li> Advertising is just a symptom, a tactic. Marketing is about far more than that.</li>
<li> Low price is a great way to sell a commodity. That’s not marketing, though, that’s efficiency.</li>
<li> Conversations among the members of your marketplace happen whether you like it or not. Good marketing encourages the right sort of conversations.</li>
<li> Products that are remarkable get talked about.</li>
<li> Marketing is the way your people answer the phone, the typesetting on your bills and your returns policy.</li>
<li> You can’t fool all the people, not even most of the time. And people, once unfooled, talk about the experience.</li>
<li> If you are marketing from a fairly static annual budget, you’re viewing marketing as an expense. Good marketers realize that it is an investment.</li>
<li> People don’t buy what they need. They buy what they want.</li>
<li> You’re not in charge. And your prospects don’t care about you.</li>
<li> What people want is the extra, the emotional bonus they get when they buy something they love.</li>
<li> Business to business marketing is just marketing to consumers who happen to have a corporation to pay for what they buy.</li>
<li> Traditional ways of interrupting consumers (TV ads, trade show booths, junk mail) are losing their cost-effectiveness. At the same time, new ways of spreading ideas (blogs, permission-based RSS information, consumer fan clubs) are quickly proving how well they work.</li>
<li> People all over the world, and of every income level, respond to marketing that promises and delivers basic human wants.</li>
<li> Good marketers tell a story.</li>
<li> People are selfish, lazy, uninformed and impatient. Start with that and you’ll be pleasantly surprised by what you find.</li>
<li> Marketing that works is marketing that people choose to notice.</li>
<li> Effective stories match the worldview of the people you are telling the story to.</li>
<li> Choose your customers. Fire the ones that hurt your ability to deliver the right story to the others.</li>
<li>A product for everyone rarely reaches much of anyone.</li>
<li>Living and breathing an authentic story is the best way to survive in an conversation-rich world.</li>
<li>Marketers are responsible for the side effects their products cause.</li>
<li>Reminding the consumer of a story they know and trust is a powerful shortcut.</li>
<li>Good marketers measure.</li>
<li>Marketing is not an emergency. It’s a planned, thoughtful exercise that started a long time ago and doesn’t end until you’re done.</li>
<li>One disappointed customer is worth ten delighted ones.</li>
<li>In the googleworld, the best in the world wins more often, and wins more.</li>
<li>Most marketers create good enough and then quit. Greatest beats good enough every time.</li>
<li>There are more rich people than ever before, and they demand to be treated differently.<br />
Organizations that manage to deal directly with their end users have an asset for the future.</li>
<li>You can game the social media in the short run, but not for long.</li>
<li>You market when you hire and when you fire. You market when you call tech support and you market every time you send a memo.</li>
<li>Blogging makes you a better marketer because it teaches you humility in your writing.</li>
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		<title>The Boss of You</title>
		<link>http://girlatplay.com/2008/01/the-boss-of-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 08:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m asked a lot to be in books, to review books, to promote other&#8217;s books and 99% of the time I decline. Everyone and their mamma seems to have a book nowadays and from what I&#8217;ve seen, a lot seem to just be riding the creative bandwagon which I hopped off long ago. The thing [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m asked a lot to be in books, to review books, to promote other&#8217;s books and 99% of the time I decline. <em>Everyone</em> and their mamma seems to have a book nowadays and from what I&#8217;ve seen, a lot seem to just be riding the creative bandwagon which I hopped off long ago.</p>
<p>The thing is, I&#8217;m highly creative but I&#8217;m also business and it seems that books either address one or the other. Also, a lot of self-employed/creative books geared towards women tend to lack &#8220;meat&#8221; &#8211; they go for making a person feel good with words like &#8220;juicy&#8221; &#8220;blessings&#8221; and offer ideas that aren&#8217;t appealing to me like pink markers, morning pages, breathing deeply and dancing wildly (ok &#8211; I like the last one). For someone like me who is a do-er, I want to be inspired with advice I can actually take from people who not just dish it, but have lived and are living it (I can&#8217;t take another self-help guru with a messed-up life promoting how to live and work creatively!).</p>
<p>Bitter much? Yes but I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll agree that there&#8217;s a lot of bad books out there. And when you&#8217;re starting out you might be tempted to buy them all (I almost did!).</p>
<p>That is why I am so, so, so thankful that Lauren Bacon and Emira Mear&#8217;s new book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1580052363?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amb&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1580052363">The Boss of You</a>, is finally available.</p>
<p>Over 5 years ago, Lauren and Emira ran an amazing site called Soap Box Girls which let women talk about what women talk about but also had tid bits on business (they really highlighted women-run business) politics and crafting. It was a great zine ahead of it&#8217;s time.  I was so in-love with what these women were doing (running their own graphic business on top) that I asked them to be <a href="http://anothergirlatplay.com/profiles/emira_and_lauren.htm">profiled on Another Girl at Play</a>. Lucky for me they said yes and a great friendship started.</p>
<p>It was in this interview that I received the <em>best</em> bit of business advice I&#8217;ve <em>ever</em> received: <em>Don&#8217;t undersell yourself!</em>. Women undersell themselves on so many levels that to read this from them really, really stuck. And I&#8217;ve always asked for what I&#8217;m worth and have never settled financially or with projects. That&#8217;s thanks to them.</p>
<p>They now run the site &#8220;<a href="http://bosslady.ca/">Boss Lady</a> which has lots of great info. It was also the base for their <a href="http://www.girlatplay.com/blog/2007/05/boss_lady_panel_podcast.htm">Boss Lady Panel at SXSW</a> last year that I, along with Jenny Hart and Vickie Howell, were able to be a part of. The five of us meshed so well and we offered <a href="http://www.girlatplay.com/blog/2007/05/boss_lady_panel_podcast.htm">great advice and stories</a> &#8211; some of which are found in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1580052363?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amb&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1580052363">The Boss of You</a></em>.</p>
<p>Whether you&#8217;re starting an internet based business, something crafting or a brick a mortar store, this book is something you need &#8211; and I don&#8217;t say that lightly. It doesn&#8217;t talk down to you and it&#8217;s not dry. It&#8217;s personable with real advice to get you rocking out. Isn&#8217;t that what a great book does?</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2007 08:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finally the podcast from the panel I did at SXSW in March is up. Listening to it I felt really proud (yes, even with the embarrassment of realising I talked about vomit) of all that we said in it. The advice that Emira, Lauren, Jenny and Vickie shared I think is really valuable and I [...]]]></description>
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<p>Finally the podcast from the panel I did at SXSW in March is <a href="http://audio.sxsw.com/podcast/interactive/panel/2007/SXSW07.INT.20070310.BossLady.mp3">up</a>. Listening to it I felt really proud (yes, even with the embarrassment of realising I talked about vomit) of all that we said in it. The advice that  <a href="http://domicile.typepad.com">Emira</a>, <a href="http://bosslady.ca">Lauren</a>, <a href="http://sublimestiching.com">Jenny</a> and <a href="http://Vickiehowell.com">Vickie</a> shared I think is really valuable and I hope the fun we had really came through.</p>
<p><a href="http://audio.sxsw.com/podcast/interactive/panel/2007/SXSW07.INT.20070310.BossLady.mp3"><img src="http://2007.sxsw.com/img/podcast_icon_ia.gif" border="0" alt="" align="left" /></a>&#8220;Successful, creative and self-taught entrepreneurs (from graphic designers, to producers, to crafters) will discuss and offer advice on what it&#8217;s really like to be the gal running the show. With experience running their own successful businesses on-line and off, each of these women has a wealth of information, advice and success stories to share. The panel will explore what makes business different from a female perspective, the particular challenges the panelists have faced, how to create/maintain a business with/without employees and how to achieve financial success all without boas or pink markers.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://audio.sxsw.com/podcast/interactive/panel/2007/SXSW07.INT.20070310.BossLady.mp3">Listen Now to the Boss Lady Podcast</a></p>
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		<title>Freelancing isn&#8217;t for everyone</title>
		<link>http://girlatplay.com/2007/03/freelancing-isnt-for-everyone/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2007 03:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alex</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week at SXSW I was on a panel called, &#8220;Boss Lady.&#8221; At the end of that panel a young woman approached me with the question of how to start her own company. At the moment she was working full time, had a really busy life and a family that depended on her to keep those two things going.</p>
<p>I offered her the idea of treating her new business as a part-time evening gig; working after all her other things had been taken care of. Her face squinted up at this. This, she said, seemed a little hard because she was already busy. I gently explained that working on your own is one if the hardest things you can do &#8211; especially at first. The effort, sacrifice and bravery required are often more than when you start a job with a company that has everything laid out for you. The cushion of a 40-hour work week with weekends off, sick benefits and coworkers to tag team with does not exist. Her face squinted more because she didn&#8217;t like the sound of all that work; that&#8217;s not what her idea of being self-employed was.</p>
<p>She had the &#8220;9-5 grass is greener&#8221; syndrome. The one in which you imagine that if you were on your own, everything would be easy peasy or at least easier. You&#8217;d have freedom, creativity, total control, late mornings, time off, possibility. And while you do get to have these things, there is a price to pay for it and that price is not for everyone.</p>
<p>So I suggested that perhaps she wasn&#8217;t made to be an entrepreneur and I could tell she didn&#8217;t like that answer because she was not happy where she was. And the opposite of unhappy is happy so the opposite of corporate must be freelance, right? Wrong.</p>
<p>I know a lot of people who work for corporations, company&#8217;s and star ups that are extraordinarily happy because they have found the right fit and the right company. These people know how they work, what they want to do and then target companies and other people that match their values, ideas and work ethic. And these people who go to offices each day are happy office people &#8211; they&#8217;re sometimes happier than a lot of self-employed people who struggle every day.</p>
<p>I asked the woman if she liked the company she worked for. No, she said. I asked if she even liked the role within the company. No, she said. I asked her if she had thought of defining who she was, what she could do and then taking that to a company that matched and she said no. She hadn&#8217;t thought of going to a different company with a different job. She had believed (as I once had), that every job would be the same. Every office would be the same. And the only solution to cubicle hell would be to leave.</p>
<p>It was the answer for me at the time, but it&#8217;s not the answer for everyone. Especially someone like her who really needed financial security to meet so many responsibilities and who also did not want to really work all that hard on something else. But when the idea of finding a different company in a different area and taking on a different career came to her, she smiled and shook her head &#8220;yes&#8221; for the first time in our conversation.</p>
<p>Sometimes when a person isn&#8217;t satisfied with something they tend to daydream about the total opposite &#8211; if you&#8217;re single you think being married would make you happy. If you have children that are driving you crazy you think about being childless. If you&#8217;re in a job you hate you think about going on your own. But I don&#8217;t think swinging to extremes is ever a really good idea because it&#8217;s usually just you reacting and not really thinking. You&#8217;ll end up with the same issues (perhaps more) if you just go to the opposite instead of figuring out what would really work best.</p>
<p>There are great things about working for someone else just as there are great things to working on your own. If you&#8217;re deciding weather or not to become an entrepreneur, writer or artist, you need to be honest about the amount of work that you&#8217;ll have to put into it without outside help &#8211; especially until you can afford to hire an assistant, a manager, an accountant or land an agent. You&#8217;ll have to ask if you&#8217;re prepared to work more than 40hours a week (and it&#8217;s true, you&#8217;ll be working in an area you love so perhaps it won&#8217;t feel like work, but then you run the risk of blurring the line between work and play. Burn out can be a problem). You&#8217;ll need to ask yourself if you require financial stability which can be hard to come by, especially when you&#8217;re first starting out. And you&#8217;ll have to understand how you work &#8211; because no one will be handing you work and giving you yearly reviews. You&#8217;re your own boss.</p>
<p>If you need freedom, creativity, the need to be of service, be independent, run your own ship but can&#8217;t quite make the leap to freelancer, see how you can rearrange your current life. Can you switch to another job within your company, can you go to a different company, can you work 4 10-hr days and have Friday off, can you go part-time, can you work in an entirely different area, can you work for an entrepreneur or a start-up to gain experience?</p>
<p>Going out on my own was the right thing for me to do at the time and it&#8217;s worked out extraordinarily well. All the challenges have been so completely worth it because the rewards were more than I expected. But it&#8217;s not for everyone. I think we all want to do work that we love and feel good about it at the end of the day. And for some working on their own is the way to do it whilst for others it&#8217;ll be nothing but a miserable time. Vice versa for working for someone else. The trick is just to be truthful about what you need, how you work, and what you are willing to do. Maybe that&#8217;s starting your own company or maybe it&#8217;s working for someone else.</p>
<p>Neither is better than the other &#8211; it&#8217;s just a question of what works for you.</p>
<p>(For another perspective, read Summer Pierre&#8217;s <a href="http://www.summerpierre.com/labels/Artist%20In%20the%20Office.html">Artist in the Office</a> series.)</p>
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		<title>Blogs with Ads</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2007 18:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I began blogging in 1996 (before there was the term &#8220;blogging), everything I wrote and created online was hand-coded. There was no &#8220;publish&#8221; button to make things easy, no archiving system. There wasn&#8217;t any other blogs out there so linking and building community wasn&#8217;t really easy. But I believed in writing and putting things [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I began blogging in 1996 (before there was the term &#8220;blogging), everything I wrote and created online was hand-coded. There was no &#8220;publish&#8221; button to make things easy, no archiving system. There wasn&#8217;t any other blogs out there so linking and building community wasn&#8217;t really easy. But I believed in writing and putting things out there so I kept going.</p>
<p>In 2001 when I left my 9-5 gig to freelance, there wasn&#8217;t other artists blogging about freelancing, creating, dealing with the day-to-day struggles so I decided I would. I wanted to share information to help someone who might be in the same position as I but, like myself, could not find the info.</p>
<p>Now, in 2007, blogs are everywhere. Everyone and their mama has one (my 63 year old mother just signed up for one!). It&#8217;s now become acceptable to blog and, in some areas, weird <em>not</em> to. There&#8217;s some blogs we&#8217;ve come to depend on for information or entertainment; we check these blogs daily, wanting more updates &#8211; quicker, faster, more! Because blogging has become a way to reach a large audience, advertisers are wanting to get in on the action. Having a &#8220;sponsor&#8221; never used to be an option but I&#8217;m actually glad it&#8217;s become one. For someone who wrote for years and years without receiving a direct financial benefit (I reference direct as in being paid for each visitor to the site. I&#8217;ve made a living indirectly from this site by landing jobs), it&#8217;s nice to be financially recognised for the work that I have and continue to put in.</p>
<p>And for some bloggers, blogging has turned into a full-time job because there&#8217;s an audience that craves their words. And for those bloggers, advertising is how they are paid for those jobs. After all, don&#8217;t most of us work to be paid? How many people go to work, come home and then say &#8220;man, so nice that I put in all that effort and received nothing!&#8221;</p>
<p>You might think for the people/sites that update a lot, ads might be OK but you might still hold prejudice against smaller blogs or sites that advertise. You might think it interferes with content that the author &#8220;sold out,&#8221; that the ads are ugly, that it removes the legitimacy of the blog. I believe these are ridiculous reasons and usually have less to do with the actual advertisement and more to do with personal beliefs and judgments.</p>
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I don&#8217;t believe advertising interferes with content. Can it? Yes. Does it sometimes? Sure. But having a point of view can also interfere with content. Very seldom do we read anything in the news or on a personal blog that is not slanted by the writers&#8217; viewpoint. That viewpoint therefore is already interfering with content. It is up to you, the reader, to judge the content; whether you accept it, believe it, or disagree. You need to be responsible for what you read &#8211; you always have been. To be so upset that an advertiser can heavily influence content is a bit naive &#8211; content is always influenced. And I don&#8217;t think it happens as much as ad-haters claim.</p>
<p>When I work with ads, I am very upfront about the fact I will not change what I believe in or what I like for any advertiser that comes on the site. At the same time, I must believe in the advertiser that I choose to work with. Which leads me to the second point of people who have ads on their blogs are &#8220;sell outs&#8221; leaving those without ads as &#8220;authentic bloggers who believe in the true purpose of the medium.&#8221; I believe in order to sell out, you have to have bought in in the first place. I don&#8217;t buy into a lot of companies or advertising so when I work with advertising, it&#8217;s a win-win. It&#8217;s not evil.</p>
<p>Ads can be ugly &#8211; especially web ads. I can&#8217;t argue too much with that. But there is a way to incorporate ads into a site so that it&#8217;s not an eyesore. And I think we&#8217;ve all seen blogs that have done so which is great &#8211; your eye gets trained where to look or not look. You don&#8217;t like ads but like a site? You know where to focus. I actually like some advertising, especially in magazines. Some of the most creative, beautiful work I&#8217;ve seen outside of museums that hang Van Gogh or Matisse is magazine advertisements. I&#8217;ve taken a lot of inspiration from them. If done right, they can be a work of art just as much as any blog article can be.</p>
<p>And lastly, for those who run ads to be seen as illegitimate bloggers, it goes back to the idea of a sell-out. It goes back to the idea that &#8220;indy&#8221; is best and &#8220;Corporate&#8221; is evil. Not so. People are behind both so it&#8217;s up to the reader to look at the person(s) behind the sites and decide what their intent and purpose is. Is it to be paid for the amount of work being put into their blog (especially when we demand daily updates from them)? Is it to be compensated in some way for 10 years of online idea-sharing that perhaps you might have found useful even just once?</p>
<p><a href="http://decor8.blogspot.com/2007/01/welcome-sponsors.html">Holly at Decor8.com</a> said this when speaking to the advantage of advertising:</p>
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<div id="plainquote">&#8230; advertising assists bloggers like me to keep going, daily, without let up. It&#8217;s also a huge push to blog on days when I&#8217;m sick or have work or family business to take care of.</div>
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<p>How many freelancers do you know that have health insurance or get paid time off? Not many I assure you. What if their revenue from advertising helps them take a day off, helps them take a trip that they write about that inspires you, helps them write about the process of something so that you can leap out on your own?</p>
<p>So many people have had issues with <a href="http://dooce.com">Dooce</a> making money from her site from &#8220;ugly corporate advertising.&#8221; I don&#8217;t read her site but not because of advertising (just not my area of interest) but I&#8217;ve seen it, and it&#8217;s pretty easy to just focus your eye in the middle and read her words or better yet, sign up for her RSS feed. But what is the real issue with her making money from her site? What do people have a personal problem with it? Because let me tell you, if I could make the money she makes from just writing a post every day, I would do it. Actually, I would probably get bored after awhile but I&#8217;d welcome the ability to test it out! So, are people angry at the ads or angry that they don&#8217;t have that opportunity?</p>
<p>People have asked me how I feel about the &#8220;ad free blog&#8221; thing that&#8217;s been posted on people&#8217;s sites here and there and I think it&#8217;s a bit judgmental &#8211; especially for those participants who are self-employed. It doesn&#8217;t make one better to not have advertising just as having advertising with a big company make one superior. But, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with making money for work that you do. And if you happen to blog and can receive money for this, I think that&#8217;s a good thing.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think sneaky advertising is a good thing; when bloggers are paid money to pretend to like something. It&#8217;s like those radio commercials where the announcers say they love so and so and it sounds like a personal endorsement instead of a paid advertisement. I have never &#8211; and would never &#8211; do that kind of advertising. I believe in saying, &#8220;here&#8217;s an ad &#8211; read it or leave it&#8221; instead of being sly and putting it into a paragraph. But at the same time, that idea comes back to it being the readers&#8217; responsibility to discern what is truthful or useful to them, isn&#8217;t it? Because if they read a sneaky ad and bought X product just because and then was angry because X product sucked, you can&#8217;t blame the sneaky ad writer, can you?</p>
<p>I run several sites and some sites I have advertising and some I don&#8217;t. Personal sites, no advertising because it&#8217;s just for personal entertainment of sorts. But business sites, I&#8217;m all about advertising. I&#8217;d like to be paid for work I&#8217;m putting out. I&#8217;d also like to be able to offer friends or small businesses an inexpensive way of advertising (I&#8217;ve actually had a lot of my friends post beautiful ads for free on my sites to help them gain exposure. Is this evil?)</p>
<p>I think what it comes down to in some regards is do people think making money as an artist is bad. This perhaps sounds like a ridiculous question but there is a huge belief that artists must suffer or true artists aren&#8217;t about the money but about the art. I don&#8217;t see why you can&#8217;t be about both. I know I bring up money a lot but it&#8217;s because I truly believe you can be an artist, say what you really need to say and still make money. The more money I make, the more I can help other artists get their voices heard because I&#8217;m more in a position of power. If I&#8217;m struggling, I can&#8217;t hire a writer, an artist, or designer – I have to look out for me. But if I&#8217;m doing work that I love (whether it&#8217;s blogging, writing in a magazine, creating a book, selling a painting, working on a film set) and being paid for that, then I can help others to do the same.</p>
<p>And if advertisements on my blogs can help that, then I&#8217;m all for it. And if ads can help you, then I&#8217;m all for that, too. And if you don&#8217;t want to make any money or have any influence on your site, than I totally believe in that as well. I just don&#8217;t believe in saying one is right and one is wrong or being judgmental about who has or does not have advertising.</p>
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		<title>Dan Rather Keynote &#8211; SXSW</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 10:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the highlights for me at this years SXSW was Dan Rather&#8217;s Keynote. It spoke a lot about truth in media which is something I think about a lot as both a reader and a writer. I found it very enlightening to hear the differences in reporting from twenty years ago and now. The [...]]]></description>
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<p>One of the highlights for me at this years SXSW was <a href="http://audio.sxsw.com/podcast/interactive/panel/2007/SXSW.INT.2007.03.11.KeynoteDanRather.mp3">Dan Rather&#8217;s Keynote</a>. It spoke a lot about truth in media which is something I think about a lot as both a reader and a writer.</p>
<p>I found it very enlightening to hear the differences in reporting from twenty years ago and now. The biggest difference that I found was how at one point reporters banded together. If a reporter asked a question to say the President and the President didn&#8217;t really answer it, the next reporter would have said, &#8220;Mr. President, you didn&#8217;t answer So &#038; So&#8217;s question.&#8221; Now, if that happened the next reporter would just ask a new question &#8211; no one holds the President accountable for answering it. Journalists to a large degree, have become afraid to stick up for one another or press questions or find the truth. And, as an audience, we have become lazy about questioning what we read and if it&#8217;s the truth.</p>
<p>Hearing this keynote inspired me to really write as organically and truthfully as I can. And I&#8217;ve been thinking about advertising and how that plays into it and I think if you have personal integrity, if you keep at something that is important to you, if you believe in truth and true creativity, then nothing should get in the way &#8211; not working for a big news corporation, a small corporation, an advertising company, or for the President. It&#8217;s all about personal responsibility and beliefs. And I just love the way Dan Rather puts it all together.</p>
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